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RE: RE: what would you do? opinions needed
Posted by: Arablvr Date posted: 03/28/2008 01:15:07 AM

Your horse? You pay for it? Plain and simple. Either she puts some money into the kitty, or she doesn't ride. She may not even realize that you're upset. Have you told her you are? Does she know that you're feeling used? If not, then it's your fault because you've allowed the situation to develop. If she knows, then don't pull any punches, and don't let her put something over on you just because she's your sister. Family can be the hardest ones to make respect your boundaries, but if you don't say something now, and put a stop to it, you'll resent it, and eventually blow up. So the question becomes, do you want to hurt her a little now, or possible really damage your relationship at another point in time? And, if you tell her, she may even apologize if she didn't realize what she was doing.

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what would you do? opinions needed [ Posted by sjf2006] 03/26/2008 01:18:23 PM Views: 660

RE: what would you do? opinions needed [ Posted by Miss Carbella] 03/26/2008 01:43:50 PM Views: 208

RE: what would you do? opinions needed [ Posted by Barn] 03/26/2008 04:30:57 PM Views: 173

RE: what would you do? opinions needed [ Posted by horsepro] 03/27/2008 12:18:45 AM Views: 151

RE: what would you do? opinions needed [ Posted by Tallahassee] 03/27/2008 12:39:50 AM Views: 142

RE: RE: what would you do? opinions needed [ Posted by Arablvr] 03/27/2008 10:54:55 AM Views: 144

RE: thank you [ Posted by sjf2006] 03/28/2008 01:15:07 AM Views: 139

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